Final Part 1 of 2 

Class /Self-Evaluation

In this course I have learned a couple things (algorithms, binary numbers, coding, etc..,). I learned a bit more than what i already knew but i feel i would have learned a lot more if we would actually focused more on what this course is really about which is computer science. At the start of this class every time we meet we always begin by typing a attribute or a quote by someone we don't know that teaches how to be a good person. We spend about 1 hour and 30 minutes in this class and spend about an hour being taught how to be a good person and then devote the last 30 minutes of class to computer science. I understand what my teacher is trying to do but this is not the kind of course. I am a good person and always will be there is no doubt about that be i sighed up for this class to learn about computer science.

Rule 1: Become Genuently interested in other people.


"Do this and you will be welcomed anywhere"
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years bt trying to get other people interested in you" 
"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering"

“Badges mean nothing in themselves, but they mark a certain achievement and they are a link between the rich and the poor. For when one girl sees a badge on a sister Scout’s arm, if that girl has won the same badge, it at once awakens an interest and sympathy between them.”

Juliette Gordon Low

When you acknowledge someone, you recognize their value and importance they will feel imortant and feel comfortable with you. Starting the day with a "Hello" or “Good Morning”. Smiling at each and every co-workers as you pass by them by on way to the office? Or reaching out to a new acquaintance you see in a crowd. Be friendly so they feel safe and be a new friend.

Rule 2: Smilie 

1) Actions Speak louder than words, and a smile says, I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you. 

2) "You dont feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."

3) "It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication)

Form one's features into a pleased, kind, or amused expression, typically with the corners of the mouth turned up and the front teeth exposed. A smile is the most important thing because it is contagious if you smile at some they'll smile and feel good. it may save a life.

 Remember even though the outside world might be raining, if you keep on smiling the sun will soon show its face and smile back at you.

Anna Lee

Rule 3: Rember names 
1) "A mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2) "If you dont remember names , you are headed for trouble."

We can't allow any war for imperialism or greed to be fought in our names. This is what we need to keep fighting for.

When you use someone’s name, it shows you see that person as an individual. When you remember it, it shows your interest in and respect for that individual. In business, knowing someone’s name can make a difference in how that person feels about you and your brand. The trouble is most of us have trouble remembering the names of people we don’t know well, and we panic. Sometimes we may even avoid someone whose name we don’t remember in order to to avoid embarrassment. We even make excuses like, ”I’m terrible at names.” Or “I have bad memory.” People who are good at remembering names probably don’t have any better memory than you do. What they are better at is working at remembering names

1. Face association

Examine a person's face discreetly when you are introduced. Try to find an unusual feature, whether ears, hairline, forehead, eyebrows, eyes, nose, mouth, chin, complexion, etc. Create an association between that characteristic, the face, and the name in your mind. The association may be to link the person with someone else you know with the same name. Alternatively it may be to associate a rhyme or image of the name with the person's face or defining feature.

2. Repetition

When you are introduced, ask for the person to repeat their name. Use the name yourself as often as possible (without overdoing it!). If it is unusual, ask how it is spelled or where it is comes from, and if appropriate, exchange cards. Keep in mind that the more often you hear and see the name, the more likely it is to sink in.

Also, after you have left that person's company, review the name in your mind several times. If you are particularly keen you might decide to write it down and make notes.

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Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attractive listener."

"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems"

When you become a good listener you a journal or diary for someone. When you show interest in a person, that person feels that he/she can trust you and never break that trust because without that trust there is nothing. Don't be selfish and brag about yourself when you listen people, they listen to you. 

A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something.

Wilson Mizner

5 tips for active listening 

Step 1: keep natural eye contact and be patient 

Step 2: really listen, dont thing of you experiances and what to say next.

Step 3: allow for pariods of silence  wait till the other person speakes again.

Step 4: from time to time raet the persons word of parafrase what they said it will really asure                   that you are litening.

step 5: understand the motion and understand.

Rule5: Talk in terms of the other mans interest.

" the royal road to a mans heart is to him about the things he treasures most"

Photographers usually want to photograph facts and things. But I'm interested in the nature of the thing itself. A photograph of someone sleeping tells me nothing about their dream state; a photograph of a corpse tells me nothing about the nature of death. My work is about my life as an event, and I find myself to be very temporal, transient.

Duane Michals

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important -- and do it sincerely 

the desire to be important is the deepest  urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

There’s a big difference between appreciating people and making them feel significant. Of course, you want to appreciate others. But even more than that, you need to make those important people in your life feel that they matter.Success both personally and professionally is hard to achieve without others who fill gaps for you and support you. There is rarely an exception to this. Think of people in your life. Who has really impacted your career and your family? Do you make those people feel as if they’re irreplaceable? Do you brag on them in the presence of others? Do you give them credit for all they do for you? Do you ask for their opinions on things important to you and to the success of your company? Do you tell them how much you value their advice? Are you interested in the things they care about?.

“Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself – and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to – letting a person be what he really is.”

Jim Morriso

Reflection: 

I have always used these ways.

The Six Attitudes of High Achievers

High Achievers Dont Make....

1. Make No Small Plans

       Small plans would be would be small thinking. if tou aren the type of person that does small thinking then you wont succssed much but always keep in mind the little things.

Make no little plans. They have no magic to stir men's blood and probably themselves will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and work, remembering that a noble, logical diagram once recorded will never die, but long after we are gone will be a living thing, asserting itself with ever-growing insistency. Remember that our sons and grandsons are going to do things that would stagger us. Let your watchword be order and your beacon beauty. Think big.

Daniel Burnham, Chicago architect. (1846-1912)

2. Do What They Fear

        You have to get outof your comfort zone because if you fear something then that would be one motive or excuss to stop what you want to do. Fear should be a goal for you to overcome and once you overcome your fear then feel that there is mant things that you can do. When you feel great you do do great. 



I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain.
Frank Herbert

3. Are wiling to prepare

Being prepared is in important because then if you’re never prepared then you wont be able to succssed in life. its also your

responsibility to be prepared forfor anything that may come your way. Somebody who is never prepared will never strive or make in life between his/ hers career between a person that always strives and is prepared. What the quote means is if you’re wiling to sacrifice for your passion then you should

be prepared with the hard working coming with it. And if not then above all you will never accomplish your dreams ever. 

“Follow your passion, be prepared to work hard and sacrifice, and, above all, don’t let anyone limit your dreams.”

4. Are willing to risk failer

He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.

Muhammad Ali

In order to be sucssesful you need to take risk if you dont then you wouldent know weather you will or not be succssful. Just like the second ways says " great achievers do what they fear." If you fear to take risks than take it.

5. Are Teachable 

It is not enough to be content with what you already know. In order to reach your maximum potential, you must attempt to deepen your understanding of the world around you. Sometimes it can be daunting with all the knowledge there is in the world, so where should you start? Start with the question: “What knowledge will help me move ahead?”
How will learning something new everyday help us in life or in the future?
Success can be defined in many ways, but ideally you must learn more about the things that can help you strike a balance in all the aspects of your life. What knowledge will help you get a job and earn a decent income? What knowledge will help you become more financially secure? What knowledge will help make you an expert? What knowledge will help you feel more at peace with yourself? What knowledge will help you better understand the world around you? Furthermore, are these all ‘just causes’ or are you wasting time learning more about things that inevitably harm you and those around you?
Work on identifying what is holding you back. Why aren’t you happy in your job? Why are you in debt? Why do you feel like a wasted space? Why do you feel your life is in turmoil? Why do you choose to surround yourself with people that don’t really care about you?

6. Have heart 

Love myself I do. Not everything, but I love the good as well as the bad. I love my crazy lifestyle, and I love my hard discipline. I love my freedom of speech and the way my eyes get dark when I'm tired. I love that I have learned to trust people with my heart, even if it will get broken. I am proud of everything that I am and will become.

Johnny Weir

That’s easy to remember when life is good, but it’s more important to remember when you’re faced with a challenge, especially when that challenge, when the tendency is to shut down or go on the attack. I’ve tried both of those tactics and I wouldn’t recommend them. sometimes the nice guys don’t have to finish last. Nice Guys Don’t Have to Finish Last Common life events that can create trouble in things like moving, being unemployed, getting a new job, the death of a parent and having a baby. People tend to contract during those times naturally, and it’s not necessarily unhealthy. You need to preserve your energy when going through major life changes. But contracting doesn’t have to mean shutting down! It can mean that you are extra careful with what you choose to do.

9 ways to be happy and make something in your life

9 ways to be happy and make something in your life 

Gordon B. Hinckley

1. Be Grateful 

Being grateful is giving thanks to all your blessing and being positive about it. 

"I believe if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you're grateful, you'll see God open up new doors."






2. Be Smart 

Everyone in the world is smart because we all have knowledge. when there is something that you don't know you are still smart its just absence of knowledge. Ignorance does not mean your are not smart, you cant be judged by what you don't know.

"I never cut class. I loved getting A's, I liked being smart. I liked being on time. I thought being smart is cooler than anything in the world."

Michelle Obama

4.Be Clean 


Keep close to Nature's heart... and break clear away, once in awhile, and climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods. Wash your spirit clean.

John Muir

It is important to be clean because it reflects who you are. 












5.Be True 

Men in general are quick to believe that which they wish to be true.

Julius Caesar

Choose the right be true be you.

6. Be Positive

Positive anything is better than negative nothing.

Elbert Hubbard

Being positive is always a good thing because it means that you understand. If something negative happened to you and you are positive then you know that things happened for a reason. you spend more energy being negative than to positive. why spend extra energy for nothing.

The way I will apply this is always have a smile even when things go bad.


7. Be Humble 

God will have a humble people. Either we can choose to be humble, or we can be compelled to be humble.

Ezra Taft Benson

i wouldnt know how to to reflect on this.





6. Be Still 


Once I knew only darkness and stillness... my life was without past or future... but a little word from the fingers of another fell into my hand that clutched at emptiness, and my heart leaped to the rapture of living.

Helen Keller

When you learn to be still you you have the key to to be open minded and become aware the things around you. Being still will give you the foucse you need to reflect and clear your mind.



9. Be Prayerful









This the end of the nine ways. These are said to be the ways to happiness if you attempt theses ways I hope that they work out for you .