The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 

Habit 1: Be Proactive 

"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."

Being proactive means thinking and acting ahead of anticipated events; this means using foresight. Not only is it a great method for avoiding more work down the road, but it can be extremely important for averting disasters.

Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind

"Control your own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch)

Habit 3: Put First Things First 

"Organized and execute around priorities."

Do not put your priorities second because those priorities will determine your plans for tomorrow. Leaving thing for tomorrow has never been a great idea because then that shows you laziness and that becomes a habit so save yourself from becoming lazy and a procrastinator. It is very hard to get out of it.

Habit 4: Think Win-Win
"Think win-win or no deal."

In many situations there is usually a win win or a win lose or a lose lose situations. Its our job to go for the most beneficial one. There is no point on getting a deal that wont help you in anyway shape or form. This is a matter of facts and truth be told some people take lose-lose situations because of the benefits that actually come with it. The fact the people will go as far to lose in return gain something even better is something. This is how the real world works. They always going on about what choices they should make and what values come with it. People need to understand the world wont be waiting for them. They need to get up on there feet and start searching for the best and possible opportunities. No man or woman shall go to life and lead themselves to failure they must reach a win-win situation.


Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood
"Diagnose before you prescribe."
 
Always try to understand what others are going through than yourself the reason is that people always are in need of help. These type of people are the people that are the most sincere. People need to need to understand this that is key. Those that do not understand this concept will never ever be understood. Those that do get it will seek-out more friends and be able to understand one another equally on a level of sensitivity. it just like a doctor when he checks you for symptoms. After that he prescribes the medicine needed to treat your body.  This is what it means to Diagnose before prescribing. Understanding one and another hand to hand experience is key here. Always seek first to understand than to be understood. 

Habit 6:  Synergize
"The whole is greater than the sum of its parts (1+1=3)"

 People need to know what a good synergy can do to you and a team member. This can bring out loads of team work and other secrets. This a major to finding the best chemistry. A synergy can help bring out the true power of a double to four v four battle. Just like in the game Mortal kombat Smoke and Noob and perfect candidates for an example of synergy. This Duo works miraculous and is a duo to be on the lookout for. This is also goes to show that nothing can be done alone no matter how much is accomplish you will need some help at some point. Look for the one bond to help build up the chemistry. Once that is done you will be set and just then move from experience there on.  

Habit 7:  Sharpen the Saw
Four Dimensions of Self-Renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional

Always refresh yourself. Dont work hard work smart. sharpen the saw to make life easier.

Reflection:

Three Fundamental Techniques

in Handling People

Dale Carnegie

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

It is never a good idea to critize or judge because you dont know how sensitive they are to the situation. You can really hurt someone and make make them feel insecure about many things. If you want to make a friend you cant judge because then that would mean you are perfect but no one is perfect its called being a human being. Instead ask how you can help them. maybe you can help them feel better. 

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"

When one looks up the meaning of the word "sincerity" you'll most likely get a definition like this:"the absence of pretence, deceit, or hypocrisy." That pretty much nails it. When someone is "sincere about something" one assumes that this person is thinking, talking, acting and writing without "pretence, deceit or hypocrisy".Do things out of the goodness of your heart; don't seek a reward or do things to acquire things from people. Don't do it or say it, unless you believe it from your heart.

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."

Reflection:

Honesty should always be number one handling people because you can not carry on with lies . Lying to someone makes them feel disrespected and that is one thing you don't want to do. I am a people person and have an internship at a hospital so i constantly using these principals. It helps because when people see that you are interested in them, it puts a big smile on their face.